If you've been to a workshop or heard from others you'll know that I pride myself on offering a safe, playful and profound space to help people experience 'caring kink'. I am now offering this 1:1 in two different ways:
1. Kinky Coaching: Raise your skill level in yourself or bring kink more into your relationship. Create the kink you want! 
  • We can meet online (good for relationship work - bringing kink in safely)
  • We can meet in person, at your place
  • I can show you the ropes or give you exercises to do
  • I can guide you through anxiety and into confidence
  • I can help you to play safely and get the kink you want!
  • Prices are on a sliding scale. Email me to get kinky coaching.

2. Live Your Fantasy:  Enter the dungeon - Experience your submissive side with a  safe, caring and experienced male master? ​(Open to any gender)
  • Initial call to discuss your fantasy and both of our boundaries. All of my work is not sexual, but it can be very erotic. We can discuss this and you can get what you need! 
  • Then we will meet for a minimum of 2 hours and maximum of 5 hours at a local dungeon space. 
  • Aftercare included both on the day and as a follow up call (15mins).
  • Prices are on a sliding scale. Email me to live your fantasy!
What kind of play might we do?
There are three aspects to the play that we can consider: Physicality, Emotional Psychology  and Sexuality. You can mix and match the following: 
  1. Physicality: This is all about how much body work, impact play, sensation play and physical (non-sexual) stimulus is involved in the session.
    1. Light touch play: Sometimes all you want is a firm spanking and a good night's sleep. This session is all about impact play, but without the descent into true masochism. We'll play with pain but pull our punches, and you'll discover exactly what feels good (or bad in a good way!). There'll be no particular power dynamic or sensual/sexy energy so you can focus exclusively on the body work. Perfect for a newer player, or someone just developing their appreciation of impact play. Recommend a 1-2 hour session.
    2. Heavy play : Heavy impact play for the discerning masochist! Have your body worked over and boundaries nudged with a comprehensive beating. Take all that stress and strain and have it wiped out as you push through the pain barrier and experience true catharsis. Float home and sleep for 12 hours, but careful sitting down the next day! A favourite among other Dommes who occasionally want to bottom without the power dynamics. Recommend 2-3 hrs.

  2. Emotional Psychology: This is about how cerebral and mentally focused the session is. It governs the level of Domination/submission and power dynamics, the amount of mind-focused activities and elements, and how verbal the session is likely to be.
    1. Tentative steps: Explore submission or fantasies in a gently progressing fashion in a session entirely about probing your kinky mind, and discovering what makes you tick. Perhaps this is your first foray into D/s and you want to develop as a submissive, or maybe it is a soft entry into a fantasy you've always wanted to test out. Either way, this session will feature only minimal physical stimulus, and not be intended to hold sexual energy. Recommend a 1 hour session.
    2. Emotional Immersion: Step out of your body, and come on a mental, emotional journey of submission. This session minimises body work and can be entirely asexual, as we focus squarely on your mind and ego. Domination of the mind and soul in its truest form. This is a 1 hour session but can be extended.

  3. Sexuality: This is about how much sexual energy is held and worked with during the session: how much focus is placed on arousal, sensuality, and potentially climax (if allowed!)
    1. Pleasure play: It's getting hot in here! Get what you're asking for with a sensual, teasing flirtation with my softer side, but with strict boundaries that time-out the action before it gets scorching! We can make this absent of any harder bodywork, power dynamics or story-telling - simply a pure pampering, focusing on erotic sensation play. OR Treat yourself to a scenario where you are taken out of vanilla sexuality and given some fetishy flavour to salivate over. My own boundaries, as always, apply. 
    2. Sexual Satisfaction : Did you want a full service escort? Before we chat further, do understand that I don't fuck my clients, and it's really unusual for me do sessions that are entirely about sexuality without a hint of power dynamics or non-sexual physicality. If you are looking for someone you can trust to unlock sexual blockages, get in touch and I can refer you to amazing sex therapists. If on the other hand you just want some sexual touch with a kinky edge, we can probably arrange that! ​

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More Questions?
Contact me and I'd be happy to talk about this more. 

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