Neil's course was so illuminating. I learnt a wealth of information about communicating more effectively in relationships and understand so much more about myself and where I've been going wrong all these years. - Becky

12 Week Online Course.
​Bring a friend or partner for FREE.

​THIS IS FOR YOU IF YOU WANT TO...

  • Understand your traumas, triggers and historic attachment styles, so that it all begins to make sense
  • Learn to self and co-regulate your nervous systems, so that you feel safer and calmer
  • Develop your communication skills so that you can have clearer boundaries, agreements and understanding, so that you feel connected and clear
  •  Discover intimacy rituals that can help you come together and find a sense of belonging  
  • Through these practices become more of your authentic self and meet your deeply held longings​​​
"Wow Neil, The dedication you put into each and every session - Incredible work!" - Kelly and Greg
How much?
See tickets and pricing at the bottom of this page

Where?
Online - Via Zoom

​When: 
Tuesday evenings, 1.5 hrs 7:30pm-9:00pm

Next Course Dates:
Sept 19th - Dec 5th  2023:  
Dates: 19-Sept, 26-Sept , 3-Oct, 10-Oct , 17-Oct,
24-Oct, 31-Oct, 7-Nov, 14-Nov, 21-Nov, 28-Nov, 5-Dec
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Course Schedule:
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1-4: Understanding Our Projections and Patterns 
  • Session 1 - Trauma and Triggers - Utilising Glimmers and Self Regulation
  • Session 2 - Attachment Styles - Understanding The Origins
  • Session 3 - Self Awareness - Meeting Our Painful Parts
  • Session 4 - Self-Talk - Cultivating Self-Love and Self-Regulation
5-8: Communicating More Clearly
  • Session 5 - Listening - Creating a SAFER container
  • Session 6 - Boundaries and Agreements
  • Session 7 - Asking for help - Using the feelings as a guide
  • Session 8 - Apologising - Utilise the power of rupture and repair
9-12: Deepening Intimacy 
  • Session 9 - Appreciation - Use positive reinforcement to create more love
  • Session 10 - Love - Treat Others as They Want To Be Treated
  • Session 11 - Rituals - Make time for deep connection
  • Session 12 - Course Review 
Meet the teacher: Neil Morbey
I'm teaching this course because I think it's so valuable and because I have battled with my own attachment wounding over the years and realised that some key realisations and skills have moved me from relating like a person in the dark to  switching on the lights and seeing my part.   I'm no expert - I'm a learner who is teaching to help others to:
  • Understand your traumas, triggers and historic attachment styles, so that it all begins to makes sense
  • Learn to self and co-regulate your nervous systems, so that you feel safer and calmer
  • Develop your communication skills so that you can have clearer boundaries, agreements and understanding, so that you feel connected and clear
  •  Discover intimacy rituals that can help you come together and find a sense of belonging  
  • Through these practices become more of your authentic self and get meet your deeply held longings

The research I did for the course was based on my psychotherapy, counselling and coaching training and experience. The following resources have been instrumental in designing the course:
  • Attachment Styles:  Mary Ainsworth created these based on John Bowlby's work in the 1950's. She realised that our upbringing could create patterns of relating that are now referred to (in short) as: secure,  avoidant, anxious and 
    disorganized (a mix of anxious and avoidant). Understanding these patterns in ourselves is a cornerstone to relating with more self-awareness.
  • Trauma and Triggers:  The work of Dr. Gabor Maté has led us to understand that trauma is commonplace and is the basis for most 'crime' and ill-health, both mental and physical, and when we understand 'what happened' and the triggers for trauma we can understand how to work with, heal and grow from our traumas. 
  • Communication skills: Modern psychology means that we are now in possession of so many tools for communication and in this course we offer a wide range from NVC, Radical Honesty, NLP, Love Languages, Apology Languages, Mindful Communication and more. 

What do others say?
People LOVE this course and it usually sells out. See my testimonials here. 
"The Building Secure Attachment Course enabled my partner and I to talk about things we've been putting off for years. We are connecting so much more than we used to thanks to this work - thanks Neil, we appreciate your course so much!" - Jo and GG.

Tickets and Pricing

Ticket Prices:   **Bring a partner or friend for FREE on these tickets**
  • Early bird Price (before the end of August) £365** 
  • Standard price - £385**
      **Bring a partner or friend for FREE on all the above tickets**
  • Solo ticket - £195  (no free partner) ​
To secure a place please pay up front. Any registrations without payment will not have a place secured. 

Refunds:  Admin fee of £5 to process any refunds. No Refunds within 48hrs of the course start date. This is because the places are limited and you will have taken a place for someone else. See here for more details. 

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Help me spread the word after you register, pleeeease!
"We loved the structure and the group atmosphere. This course is packed!" - Lu.