Missing warmth and affection?
Arguing about sex, money, in-laws?
Want more peace, harmony and less drama?
​Don’t wait until it’s too late.
Investment: £50 for 75 minutes
The first session is discounted at £50 for 75 minutes, to see if we work well together.  After this any 'individually booked' sessions are £65 each.

6 SESSION PACKAGE: £280
Book a cluster of sessions, which must be used within 2 months - 6 sessions cost £300 for 6 sessions, each lasting 75 minutes. 6 SESSIONS DISCOUNTED - This also allows for a commitment to a structure of working. 

Remote working  
Skype/telephone sessions available. You can access this work wherever you are in the world. 
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I am open to working with:
  • ​Individual sessions - for 1-1 work outside of the relationship or even with friends in 1-2 or 1-3 ways that help more people at once.
  • ​Couples Counselling: Resolve differences and let go of the baggage. I engage with you in a process, nurturing and supporting your growth as a couple while respecting both your individual viewpoints.
  • Family Reuniting: We can engage with a family members to help everyone be heard and unite a family again.
  • Monogamous and Polyamorous relationship counselling, marriage counselling, same sex couple counselling, LGBT couple counselling (I identify as cis-male and polyamorous and work within the LGBTQ+ community. I have an open relationship with my female partner).
Tools you could learn together:
  • Intention setting - the way I begin each session 
  • The key is talking and listening - which can be taught! (Here's one way)
  • Expectation setting and boundaries.(instead of control)
  • Mindful ways to deal with our own emotional reactions
  • Mindful communication techniques
  • Timed talks to rebuild honest connection
  • Learning each others' Love Languages (HEARTS)
  • Learning how to say SORRY and make amends. 
  • Practices to rekindle intimacy.
  • Deeper touch and intimacy practices.
A typical session
A typical relational coaching session lasts 75 minutes and includes both meditation practice, listening practice and a focus on communication.

For the meditation element all we need is a quiet place to sit, with a few cushions. Although we will spend a small amount of time on posture the majority of the work is simple practice on which I will guide and answer questions afterwards. We can try different styles of meditation, but at the core of this is Vipassana (or insight) meditation.

In talking we can explore what causes negative emotions; such as anger, rage, frustration, guilt, jealousy, worry or stress within the relationship. I teach key techniques to healthy communication. I also help by reflecting and acting as a level-headed third party in discussion.
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"Neil  has an amazing friendly and welcome approach which children relate to and that made the whole process much easier  Neil really "gets it " (Tanya, 1-1 Family-Relations Client)
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"I've had four 1:1 sessions with Neil and am excited about booking the next block. This has absolutely been the best experience of complimentary therapy (or indeed of any therapeutic activity) I've ever had. I have recommended him to pretty much everyone" (Lulu)